October 26, 2026
If I were hiring an agent to sell my own home, I would not choose someone based only on who suggested the highest list price.
I would want to understand how they think.
How will they market the property?
Who do they believe the likely buyer is?
What would they recommend doing before the home goes on the market?
What happens after the listing is live?
And when an offer comes in, how will they evaluate and negotiate it?
Those answers tell you much more about how an agent will actually represent you.
Here are five questions I would ask before signing a listing agreement.
1. What Is Your Actual Marketing Plan?
Notice I did not say:
“Where will you list my home?”
Most agents have access to the same basic listing systems.
The better question is:
How will you market it?
There is a difference.
Putting a home in the MLS is important, but that should be the foundation of the marketing plan, not the entire plan.
Depending on the property, I would want to hear about things such as:
More importantly, I would want to know why the agent is recommending those things for my specific home.
A good marketing plan should not sound identical for every property.
2. Who Do You Think the Buyer Is?
This question tells you whether the agent has actually thought about how your property should be positioned.
Different homes attract different buyers.
A downtown condo is not marketed the same way as a rural acreage property.
A wine country estate may appeal to a different audience than a first-time buyer home.
A coastal property may require a different message than a home in North County.
The agent should be able to explain who they believe is most likely to respond to the property and how that affects the marketing.
That does not mean trying to predict the exact person who will buy your house.
It means understanding what features are most likely to matter to the buyers considering homes like yours.
The strategy should fit the property.
3. What Would You Have Me Do Before Listing, and Why?
This may be one of the most important questions.
Sellers are often told to paint, replace flooring, remodel kitchens, update landscaping, stage the house, or complete a long list of repairs.
Some of those recommendations may make sense.
Others may not.
I would want the agent to explain what they believe is worth doing and, just as importantly, why.
Will it improve the home's presentation?
Could it help with buyer confidence?
Does it address something buyers in that price range are likely to notice?
Could the improvement affect how the home competes against similar listings?
Or are we spending simply because sellers are generally told they are supposed to update before listing?
Preparation should be based on the property, competition, likely buyer, timeline, and seller's priorities.
There is no universal checklist.
4. How Will We Communicate?
This question is easy to overlook during a listing appointment.
Then the sign goes in the yard.
The home hits the market.
And suddenly the seller wants to know:
Did anyone look at it?
What did buyers say?
Are we getting showings?
How is the online activity?
What are competing homes doing?
Should we change anything?
What happens next?
Before listing, I would ask how communication will work.
How often will I hear from you?
Will I receive showing feedback?
How will you update me on market activity?
What happens if the listing is not getting the response we expected?
How quickly can I expect a response when something important comes up?
Selling a home involves a lot of moving pieces.
You should understand how your agent plans to keep you informed through them.
5. How Do You Approach Negotiations?
Price is important.
But an offer is not just a purchase price.
Depending on the transaction, you may also be evaluating:
That is why I would want to understand how an agent evaluates an offer as a whole.
What do they look for?
How do they identify risk?
How do they decide where to push and where there may be room to work?
How do they handle multiple offers?
How do they respond when inspections or an appraisal create another round of negotiations?
The highest offer is not automatically the strongest offer.
A seller deserves to understand both the price and the terms before making a decision.
Pay Attention to the Reasoning Behind the Answers
You are not looking for one perfect scripted response.
You are listening for whether the agent can explain their thinking.
Do their recommendations feel specific to your property?
Can they explain why they would price, prepare, and market the home a certain way?
Do they ask questions about your priorities?
Are they willing to tell you when they do not think an expense is necessary?
Can they explain the tradeoffs involved in different strategies?
That is where experience becomes useful.
You do not just want someone who can tell you what you want to hear during a listing appointment.
You want someone who can help you make decisions once the home is actually on the market.
Do Not Choose an Agent Based Only on the Highest Suggested Price
One of the easiest ways to win a listing appointment is to tell a homeowner their property is worth more than everyone else says it is.
That does not necessarily make it true.
I would want to see the comparable sales, current competition, condition differences, buyer activity, and reasoning behind the suggested price.
The goal is not to choose the agent who gives you the biggest number.
The goal is to choose the person whose strategy gives your home the strongest chance to perform well in the market.
A Listing Appointment Should Be a Two-Way Conversation
The agent is evaluating the property.
You should be evaluating the agent.
Ask questions.
Challenge recommendations.
Ask why.
Talk about what matters most to you.
Your priorities may be different from another seller's.
You may care most about achieving the strongest possible sale price.
You may have a firm timeline.
You may want to minimize repairs.
You may be buying another home at the same time.
You may need flexibility after closing.
Those things should affect the plan.
Thinking About Selling in SLO County?
If you are interviewing agents to sell a home in Paso Robles, Atascadero, Templeton, San Miguel, San Luis Obispo, or elsewhere in San Luis Obispo County, take the time to ask questions before choosing someone.
Ask about the marketing.
Ask who they think the buyer is.
Ask what they would change before listing.
Ask how communication will work.
Ask how they negotiate.
Then choose the person whose answers and strategy make sense for your property and your goals.
Amber Johnson, Founder
Pillar Real Estate
805.835.3425
[email protected]
1345 Park St. Paso Robles, CA 93446
DRE# 01925434
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